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We’re living in an extraordinary time - when teachings, texts, and spiritual methods abound. There are so many books, workshops, teachers, and approaches.
How do you know where to start?
What to do next?
There’s no clear path forward. The plethora of choices and confusion of the spiritual marketplace turns walking the spiritual path into a game of fifty-two pick-up.
You pick-up a method here, a teaching there.
You go to a workshop with this teacher. Listen to a dharma talk from that teacher. Do some yoga. A little mindfulness. As beautiful as each of these experiences can be, pick-up style spirituality rarely turns into a practice that can transform your life.
It’s too haphazard. Too scattered.
So what’s the solution?
It’s knowing what comes first and what comes next.
There’s a sequence to spiritual growth.
There’s a way to start and then move forward step-by-step that builds your capacity to be present, dissolve obstacles, and live a fully engaged, spiritually alive life. When you follow the right sequence, your spiritual development proceeds naturally. And quickly. But sequencing isn’t enough. You also need personalization. What is personalization?
Personalization is designing a spiritual practice that fits your life.
If the practice doesn’t fit your life - it won’t work.
You’ll stop doing it. Or you’ll keep doing it - mechanically - without getting the transforming effects.
A practice may be time-honored, sacred, and wonderful - but if it’s not fitted to your unique life conditions - it won’t work.
Fitting the practice to your life is like fitting a key to a lock.
”When we are mindful, deeply in touch with the present moment, our understanding of what is going on deepens, and we begin to be filled with acceptance, joy, peace and love.”
—Thich Nhat Hanh
The Distance Between Here & There
“What is it that you really, really want?
And what’s keeping you from it?
What is it that lies between where you want to be and where you are now?
What is it that stands between the person that you are today and the person that you most want to be?
Now, it’s not a someone, and it’s not a something. It’s not your circumstances, and it’s not your job. It’s not your childhood or even your kids. And it’s not fate or karma.
It’s your thoughts.
In particular, the thoughts of yours that do not include your wished-for reality in their images of who you are today. The ones hiding behind a fear or two, that see your dreams coming true in the future instead of the present.”
~ Mike Dooley, excerpt from Choose them Wisely (Thoughts Become Things)
Just pause, look deeply, and you will see that thoughts depart on their own.